Bumbleberry

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Playing catch up!

I have officially decided to give up on getting "caught up" on this blog.  Let's face it, it's just not gonna happen.  So...I am going to post some recent pictures of the fun we've been having lately!
 
We celebrated Michael's 2nd Birthday in February!

We colored eggs for Easter

We moved out of our townhouse in June!

We welcomed this little man in July!

My newest nephew

We celebrated this lovely lady's birthday

Another one of the newest, simply because he's just so darn cute!

Papa and Nanny with the Grandkids on Nanny's Birthday

The whole family!

We went to a few parades - Michael loved the tractors, fire trucks and horses!

Grandpa joined us for the BBQ Days parade.
He drove to and from the parade on his tricycle!

The Polingo's joined us for the BBQ days parade as well.

Michael and Daddy

We watched some "horsies" race on a beautiful July evening

We celebrated my Grandpa's 92nd Birthday!
(That's him in the middle of the back row!)

Michael and Great-Grandpa Pieper -
M is getting some horseshoe tips from the master!

I told him "If you give me one big smile, I'll leave you alone."
He agreed.  Not a fan of the camera, my grandpa!
 
 
Well, as you can see, despite the amount of drama that has been going on in our lives, we have managed to have some fun too!
 
As I was looking through pictures, I have realized how much I have NOT picked up my camera in the past 6 months.  Thank goodness for cell phone cameras!
 
Thanks for checking in!  Hopefully we will have better news on the house front soon!

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

And so it ends...

I knew I shouldn't get too excited.  Right from the start, I had a gut feeling something would go wrong.  My mom kept saying "I don't know how you can't be excited about your new house!  In just (this many) days we'll be able to see it!"

Something went wrong.

In the purchase agreement, there were 2 lines stating that the financer would send a final letter of mortgage approval by June 24th.  The letter was not sent.

The sellers, who had been looking for an "out" since June 7th, finally got their "out."  By the lender not sending the letter, it gave them an opportunity to cancel the sale of the house, even though everything was ready to go...financing in place, etc.

All a technicality.

We found out that we were probably not going to get the house on Saturday, June 29th...2 days before we were supposed to close.  We had many conversations with our real estate agent, who was trying his hardest to convince the seller's agent and the sellers to continue with the sale.

I cried for 12 hours straight.  I'm not exaggerating.  I couldn't sleep Saturday night.

Sunday continued with trying to work something out.  We spoke with the banker handling our mortgage and he confirmed our worst fear.  Not only had he not sent the letter, he informed us that it was not sent because it "slipped his mind."  I was furious and let him have a piece of my harshly worded mind.

We were advised by a real estate attorney that our agent had contacted to show up for closing, planning on continuing with the sale.  We got our down payment ready to go.  M went to daycare.  We even drove by the house before closing and had one last glimmer of hope that they would show up because it appeared that they had moved everything out.

We showed up to closing.  They didn't.

The kicker is that they HAVE moved out.  They are no longer living there.

We don't know what their problem is.  Are they being spiteful?  Do they have a better offer?  What?

Thank goodness for my parents for understanding and continuing to allow us to crash in their basement until we find a new house.  M continues to love being at Papa and Nanny's.  A cousin of mine had to stay with her parent's for 3 months last winter until they found a new house.  She told me that the time her boys had with their grandparents was priceless.  I have to agree.

We also found out on Sunday, that my Godfather Keith died in Nevada.  He is an over-the-road semi driver and was on his way from Minnesota to California with a load.  My dad spoke with him, semi to semi, on his way out on Thursday.  Dad called me after they spoke to tell me about their short conversation.  "Guess who I just saw?  Keith!  I saw a shiny semi coming towards me and thought that a semi that shiny had to belong to Keith.  Then I heard "Hey, Mike!  Is that you over there?"   They talked until their CB's went out of range.  After we got the call that Keith had passed, Dad said, "The last thing I said to him was 'have a safe trip'."  We don't know what happened. 

What I do know is that learning of his passing put this whole house thing into perspective.  We may not have a house right now.  But we do have a lot of other things.  We have each other.  We have a healthy boy.  We have jobs.  We have a roof over our head.  We are blessed.

May you rest in peace, Keith.

Thursday, June 20, 2013

A Little Bit of Insanity

Hello all!

It has been an insane month!  Sorry about the lack of pictures, just wanted to fill you all in on the craziness that is our life!

We decided that it was finally time to put our townhouse in Shakopee on the market earlier this spring.  It was a nice house while it lasted, but with having Michael and all the things that go along with both him and the dog, we decided that enough was enough.  We slowly began decluttering, got the interior painted and new carpet in the living room and sent Harley off to live with Rob's parents while it was on the market.  It went on the market on May 17th.  By May 21st, we had an offer.  We also learned that the buyers wanted to close on June 13th!  Needless to say it was a hectic couple of weeks getting everything packed up, moved into any available space including a storage unit, the calf barn at my mom and dad's, their storage room in their house as well as an enclosed trailer that Rob's sister is letting as use as storage until we close on a new place.  On the market to closing in less than one month!  It was hectic, but I do not need to be reminded that it was a good problem to have!  Closing on our former house is now officially done and all went extremely smoothly!

We moved out all the BIG stuff on June 8th and officially moved in with my parents.  Michael LOVES it!!!!  He loves the space to run, all the outdoor toys and all the visits from his cousins!

We found a house we love in Belle Plaine.  We had the inspection, put down earnest money and were looking forward to our July 1st closing date.  Then we got, not one, but 4 phone calls thru our realtor from the sellers asking us if we REALLY wanted to buy their house and if there was anything they could do to convince us not to buy it.  SERIOUSLY?!?!?!?  No!  We love the house!  Our purchase agreement is legally binding, so there is nothing that they can do, legally, to back out of the sale.  However, something very similar to this recently happened to a co-worker of mine whose seller did back out and she is now renting a townhouse for a year.  Ugh!!!  We have gotten paperwork recently that is showing signs of promise that they are really letting go of the house and that we should still be able to close on July 1st.

Because of all this drama is why neither Rob nor I have spoken a lot about this new house to anyone other than our immediate family.  It's because of all this that I am not showing any pictures or telling anyone the address.  Once we have keys in hand and all paperwork is signed, be ready for a ton of fun pictures!

We hope to be making the final move into our "forever house" (seriously, they will be carrying us out in pine boxes - we hate moving!) the weekend after the 4th of July. 

In the meantime, we are forever grateful to all those that have physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually helped us thru this on-going journey!  Rob's parents - for taking in Harley and helping us clean our townhouse in prep for the sale, Peg (Rob's sister) - for driving down to help us move out the big stuff and the use of the trailer for 3-4 weeks!, Sean -for helping us move out, and last but certainly not least, my wonderful parents!!!!  They have not only helped us clean the old townhouse, move out a LOT of stuff, take over a good chunk of their storage areas, taken off work to do all of these things, but they have so graciously taken us in while we are "homeless".  Like I said, Michael is loving the extra Papa and Nana time, gives me reports frequently throughout the day reminding me where they are ("Papa at work."  "Nanny at work.") and so excitedly announces when they are home for the day.  He is also a big fan of being outside, riding his tractor, playing in the cabin and playing on the jungle gym. 

Thank you to all!

We look forward, with cautious optimism, the closing of our forever home.  Pray for us and that all goes smoothly!

Jen

Sunday, March 24, 2013

The Holiday Season of 2012 - Part 1

Going back in time once again.

This time it's for pics from the holidays...

First comes November!


Thanksgiving Day, 2012 - Michael is now officially a forward-facing boy!

Jayde and Gavin

Michael playing piano at Uncle Pete's house

Peek-a-boo!

November 27th - The night M decided to crawl out of his crib - twice!
He's helping Daddy change it to a toddler bed at 10:30pm!

Lunch Date with Papa Peeps!

Election Day 2012 - We went with my Dad to vote.
The San Francisco Township Hall - The First Place I ever voted!

M had a rough winter!
Lots of wheezing and difficulty breathing including RSV.
He came to love the stethoscope!

Nebs were a lifesaver!

Lunch with Mom, Dad, Papa, Nana and Brooklyn

M and Harley - Can you feel the love?

Speaking of Love...
Rob and I celebrated our 4th Anniversary with a date day lunch at
Fogo De Chao and a movie!

Be on the lookout for pics from Christmas...
They're coming!!!

Saturday, March 2, 2013

The Barn

When you grow up on a farm, it's not just a place to live.  It's everything.

The Barn on my parent's farm hadn't been used for animals for about the past 5 years. 
It hadn't been used as a dairy barn since September of 1998. 
There was always talk about it being torn down. 
When the boards in the gable end of the barn began to seperate a few years ago, I thought it was just a matter of time.
 
But when you hear your parent's say that "It's coming down this fall", it was still something that I was in denial about.
I didn't really think that it would ever come down.
 
The Barn was built in 1959 by my Grandpa Harms to replace one that had been lost in a fire. 
 
On a magical day in 1972, a young, handsome bulk milk hauler drove onto the farm to pick up a load of milk.  The oldest of the farmer's daughters, a beautiful young lady, was standing in the breezeway between the milkhouse and the barn.  On May 6, 1972, they had their first date...a dance in Carver.
 
On August 31, 1974, they married and began their life with my Dad owning and operating his bulk milk operation and my Mom working as a legal secretary.
 
One year after I was born, they decided to buy the farm from my grandparents.
 
That's where they raised their daughters.
They made it a home.
 
The Barn was our playground.
It was our dance hall and our gymnastics studio.
Who needs a balance beam and uneven bars when you have a cow stantion and feed bunk?
 
Dad and I outside on the bunk and auger after it was installed.
 
Dee, Jo and Jen on the haybarn ladder


Kate, Jo, Dee and our dog Tabby
 

It was a place where we saw calves being born, baby birds chirping in the ceiling beams.
...where we spent a lot of early mornings helping Dad feed cows while he milked.
...where we built hay bale runways and pits of straw to jump in.
...where we learned the correct order of how to turn on the Harvestore unloader (and run when we did cause there might be a mouse hiding in that thing!).
...where naps were taken in the wheelbarrel while listening to the radio.
...where we stood, talking with Dad at the end of a milking waiting for the outside water tank to fill.
...where we learned to always watch the holes in the ceiling from the haybarn, just in case a stray bale came falling through!
 
Over time, the wood began to rot and the hay barn roof started to shift off of it's floor.  Dad had to use a metal cable to tie the 2 sides of the barn together to keep it from falling.
 
It was time.
 
We all went over to Mom and Dad's to help clear out the barn which had been used for storage for the past few years.  Everything had to come out.
The stalls, the electric lines, the fans, the trainers, the chain that held the teat rag pail, our old bikes, the medcine cabinet in the milk house that still had the homemade recipe card for calf scours taped inside, the last inspector reports from September 1998.
It was all there, and now it must all go.
 
Dad trying to figure out which wires were "hot" and which were "not".


Before
After

Papa and Wyatt
 
 
October 24, 2012 was demolition day.
It surprised me how choked up I got watching it come down.  I couldn't help but take a couple pictures that would help me remember .
 

 
 
What also surprised me was how little time it took.
In one hour it went from this...
 
to this...
 

Where they started

The feed room


Papa and Michael watching it come down

The milk house
 
After the barn was cleaned up and hauled away, the silos were next.
First the two stave silos and then the Harvestore.
 


The first silo
My favorite picture of the second silo coming down.

The Harvestore.
Dad saved the flag panel.
 
 
I was lucky enough to be there for all 3 of them coming down.
I have to say it is something I will never forget.
 
This is the way my parent's yard looks now.
 
 
You would never know that just a few months ago, it looked so different!
But we will always remember.
 
My parents are usually not people that like to have their pictures taken, unless it is with their grandchildren.
When I remembered that not only did they meet on this farm, but in the barn, I thought they might like to have some photos taken.
 
Surprisingly, they were all for the idea!  Except my dad thought it would be okay to come home directly from work to take pictures.  "What?  I'll be dressed the way I was dressed when we met!"
Pretty sure he was just giving me a hard time :)
 
I'm not a photographer by any means, but I think these turned out pretty cute!
 



Where it all began!




 
 
Aren't they cute?!?!?
I feel so lucky to have them as parents!
They give us all such a great example of what love, family, faith should be!
 
 
It was sad to see it go.
But we will always remember.